When I was in college in the late 70s, two of the things you had to do before you could be an official lesbian were listen to The Changer and the Changed and read Rubyfruit Jungle.
I'm working on a "Second Look" article about Annie on My Mind (25 years old now) and I'm wondering if that book has similarly become a rite of passage. If so, when--high school?
Share your stories, sisters. Yes, possibly for publication.